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Open Question: My grandma is coming of age and currently on life support...family dilemma, please help us.?

I know my English is not the best. But please have the patience to hear me out. Ok, so about two weeks ago, our family watched as my grandma slowly collapsed out of no where. She was still conscious at the time and we (family) knew she had to be rushed to the hospital to be treated. However, once she took in the word hospital, she gave us a 'fist' and tried to say something as if her mouth was muffled. Right then, we knew that she was hinting us to let her go and not have to get her to a hospital. She can't even think, she doesn't know how to speak anymore, except a coarse mumble and collapsed afterwards. We couldn't stand and watch her go in front of us, so we called the paramedics to pick us up. The results showed that her health was deteriorating each day. She is no longer able to talk or think. We were informed that they could put her on life support but she will not be able to maintain consciousness if it was taken off. Here's the dilemma. We are in China, and under Chinese laws, in order to keep her on life support, we are to pay $300 a day. We don't know how long this could go on, but watching her go is too painful.... We are keeping her alive for as long as we can. But this can only go so far before she leaves us. What should we do...? Please hear me out and comfort me...I am in tears and of immense pain as I write this. If you would, may I please ask of your understanding and ease the burden I have on me right now? Please. more

Open Question: when will the symptoms com out or implantation occur?

Is this pregnancy im feeling? my af came around may 22-23. me and my partner made love on the 28th and june 4th. the other day i had stomach cramps and lower right back pain now plus a feverish feeling the other night. i have also some breast discomforts. I also have white discharge few days ago. are these symptoms of early pregnancy? when can i feel it? thanks! more

Open Question: i have knee pain whenever i start running for a certain amount of time.?

i want to make a note, I used to run alot, on treadmill and outside, I have a bike now, as its low impact, but good for cardio and some muscular definition of my lower extremities. Im thinking I should continue this, and perhaps even lose a good 20lbs as i learned 1lb takes a way 4lbs of pressure off your knees so i think as a partial solution i will start dropping wieght, build more muscle in my legs and lower back, but I have a feeling i may have some damage to my cartilage or my tendon as it crops up, i also notice my "gate" is kind of stompy ill run for a good 40-50 yards and ill feel the pain. give me some advice to what I can do to solve this, or at least point it in the right direction.i found that the knee originates just under my patella, and above the tibia where the tendon attaches the patella to my frontal tibia and fibia bone. i have point tendernesss just below the bottom of my patella, and the pain feels as if it slightly originates further back, but the tendon itself often has point tenderness, today i found out at the top of my tibia/fibia tendonal connection it was a bit tender. what could this be? could it of been from lifting to heavy a weight during a workout years back and now manifesting self? i remember that when i was sleeping on the couch i woke up to knee pain mainly cause im over 6 feet my feet/ankle was hanging voer the armrest, i dindt think nothing of it, could this have been the culprit?? causing strain, and pressure to the cartilage? I am also about 245lbs at 6'2" is thats a secondary cuplrit as well? i am a certified EMT, but I am not a certified sports nutritionist/fitness tech. could this be a 2 part problem? me laying oddly on the couch (several times off and on) and me gaining weight?? more

Open Question: Early back labor or normal pains?

So I am 36.5 weeks and I am worried I might be experiencing early back labor. I have not had a single braxton hicks contraction during the pregnancy. This is my first child and I honestly do not even know what a contraction really feels like. I am very active and walk allot everyday.I am just a little stressed because I have heard several women talk about how they had no idea they were in labor until they were quite far into it. What is your opinion? I lost my mucus plug a week ago, Frequent/loose bowel movements, constant lower back pain...started yesterday gets more intense at moments cervical/vaginal pain and pressure nausea I also went to use the bathroom about 20 minutes ago and had a very intense pain...it felt like my back was braking and my body tensed up it only lasted about 30 seconds..,.. was it a contraction? I have a baby shower on saturday and I was really hoping I would not go into labor until after that.. I also think every day counts as far as lowering her chances of having health problems from being born early.When I lay down my back hurts worse. more

Open Question: I Have An Abscess Under My Tooth And NO WAY To Pay. Help?

I have an abscess located under one of my broken molars, luckily I'm not in pain nor have I been. Now the tricky part. I have NO Insurance. I am struggling to just pay to live in the place I am at right now with less than 20 at the end of the month, I have NO WAY to pay for a dentist or even a doctor visit. What can I do? Where can I go? I don't have the money or a way to pay for professional help. Salt water has made it go away pretty effectively, but I would like to know if there are any anti-biotics I can buy that won't require me to go through a doctor or even a remedy to possibly rid myself of it and a possible infection. Please help, I fear my health might be at risk. more

Open Question: Serious question about sex?

I have been trynig to have sex with my boyfriend, never had it before i went out with him. for some reason it hurts SO BAD. he gets like almost it, but the pain is just unbearbale. i'm afraid ill never be able to have sex. Any serious suggestions or tips would really help me. Im in my early 20s. And I know this may sound weird-but I've kinda been misinformed. How do you know if your hymen is broken? I'm not quite sure what it should look like. If I still have mine, is that whats maybe causing the pain? more

Open Question: what ya think of my emotional poem?

I still I still in the past when your not even here it hurts everyday as days go by it means nothing without you can i move on.............. when you still in my hearth? watching you walk away couldn't say goodbye but still wishing living in the past forgetin u is like losing myself when you still live in my heart holding my tears but my hearth still bleeds can i just rewind time n still believe in us take back what i say n did just maybe you might still be here? while my hearth tries to heal as time goes by the pains still lives within me can i forget you when when memories still exist I'm going to revise it thanks for ya comments. just created it few minutes ago. more

Open Question: My period was late last month. Now, it's late again. I'm not sure what to suspect or if I should be worried.?

I usually have my periods around the end of the month around the 27 or 28. In April, I didn't have one at all, but I started on May 9 and it lasted just as long as the others but was a little heavier. Now, it's June 10 and I'm worried about what could be going on. I don't want to consider pregnancy, but I know I can't ignore any possibility. I've not felt any pain in my stomach or breasts like there usually is days before my period starts. I have broken out really bad with acne though like always. Please tell me what you think may be going on.I've never used contraceptive pills, but I have always used protection. more

Open Question: do I have an std, or a cyst?

okay so my vaginal area has been having pain and discomfort. ...its kinda a burnin (but not bad at all) feelin, butt it only is like that if im sitting for too long. so i took a mirror, and its like a lump...i dont have a better description for it, then say you were to push the foreskin of your clitoris, and thats what it looks like. also when i use the restroom, theres a weird kinda of smell, its not fishy, but its not like a vagina, and mines never stunk before. I have a boyfriend and we have had sex, but one time when we were split up i almost had sex with another guy, he rubbed his*ahem* against me for a second but i pushed him off. I kno that guy, and im scared beacuse knoin him he might have sumthing...but it was a long time ago, and this feelin just popped up also problems (such as olviarian cyst, and cervical cancer) runs in my family. I dont kno what it is,. Im scared to actually get it checked put, cuz i will have to tell the doctor im sexually active ( and she doesnt follow the doctor patient confidituality, she tells my mom everything even thought im 17.) and if it is an std, im scared to tell my boyfriend because hes a good guy. (we havnt done it since we got back together) more

Open Question: i want to kill myself.......can someone listen to my pathetic life story?

i was a 12 year old in 7th grade. before that i was a smart girl and did good in elementary school. i remember my first abnormal behavior started when i was in 6th grade. i started cutting myself. i cut myself because i was really stressed out and felt some pain on the inside and the pain was unbearable. i cried everyday before i went to school because i hated it so much, i hated the people, i hated the teachers. i thought my opinions were not valid and that what i thought did not matter. i started smoking in 8th grade when i was 13 and i tried pot and started drinking and for the first time i heard something other than my suicidal thoughts. i always felt like some type of defect, insecure, ugly, fat and worthy of nothing even though years later top model agencies like Elite told me i was beautiful. i was also filled with a lot of anger and i was depressed. i remember in 8th and 7th grade i wanted to be a lone a lot because people upset me easily. even when i enjoyed being alone i soon would fall into a lonely black hole. i was suicidal since i was 12. i was a maladaptive perfectionist and struggled with black and white thinking since i was 12. i remember being anxious for 7 hours in school. it was really bad anxiety, like i would have trouble breathing and i would shake.i thought i was some disgusting creature from the amazon. i remember liking this guy in 8th grade and i some how believed i was too ugly and not good enough for him. i actually believed i was not good enough for any guy. this made me even more depressed. i didn't do good in school because i was too busy with my depressive thoughts and i never believed i was good enough to do anything right in school, i even wanted to give up just because my hand writing looked bad(when it was more perfect than anybody else's). i had urges to cut myself when i was critized by some body. if someone said something horrible to me than i wanted to kill myself or them. i eventually lost my mind and beat the crap out of some girl in 8th grade bashing her head into a wall. i just needed a release for my anger. i remember i barely spoke to anyone. so than came High School. i some time in 8th grade had a threesome with my bestfriend and a guy. i was virgin but did everything else. i for the first time with my sexual encounter felt like a void was filled for the moment. i started acting like i was big sh.it and no one could say anything to hurt me even though i cut myself because of certain stress triggers a person does not get stressed about. all of this was also accompanied by mood swings. i made a 180 high school started...when i was 14 i spoke to everyone, was the center of attention. didn't do good in school because i did not believe i needed to. i made a lot of friends. i still argued a lot and was moody.my moods changed pretty fast, like everyday sometimes or every 2 or 3 days. i smoked weed and drank with friends and sometimes myself.i went out to clubs and open cribs(house parties) i had a huge ego. i started falling in love with this guy at the end of 9th grade and was obsessed with him. i also felt like he might save me from all this. i didn't really have a real boyfriend because i acted like a slut around guys. my thinking was something like if i guy doesn't look at you, kiss you, fuck you etc than you are unworthy. i started talking to him and talking to him for hours on AIM. i really loved him. i eventually started stalking him and becoming friends with his friends so i can be close to him as possible. that summer i had anorexia and i was losing weight for him. i thought if i was hot he would finally like me and my problems would go away.than it was sophomore year so i lost a lot of weight and saw him but he still didn't like me and i wondered what the hell was wrong with me. i was as nice to him as possible, hell if he gave me the chance i would lick his ass. i one day confessed i liked him and pulled him into the bathroom and told him to fuck me. i thought maybe this would make him like me. i felt lonely when i didn't see him. i felt like a part of me was missing. i attempted suicide when i was 15 by drowning myself. when he got a girlfriend i had a breakdown and started cutting myself and burning myself. i moved on a little bit and ended up losing my virginity to some guy at a party that seemed cool. i had a lot of sex partners because it was all to kill the void inside or sometimes i needed attention. i partied a whole lot and started going out everywhere and hooking up with random guys all the time. i loved it and hated it. i tried harder drugs when i was 16 like coke, x and took pills. i had a bout of anorexia along the line again and was not going to school just going out to drink get fucked up as possible and hook up with some body. this made me feel good. yeh i became a bit addicted to drugs and alcohol and would do it often. now im 17 and i have the same existence. i still don't have any real relationships with guys because my poin more

Open Question: Horrible right ear pain?

So back in April, I had a fluid feeling and pressure in my ear. I went to my doctor and he said my ear canal was inflamed, and there was some ear wax buildup, but no fluid or problem. He gave me ear drops, which took the problem away. Here we are in May and my same right ear is having terrible pain in it. I touch the outside of the ear hole and it is just excruciating. I'm not sure if its swimmers ear, or something else wrong, and I dont really want to go to the Doctor AGAIN. Please help thanks!Oh and also, before the pain started, I had a weird heart beat sound in that ear at night when I lied down in bed more

Open Question: I might be pregnant & i'm cramping!?

I am about 6 weeks late. I'm going to the doctor tmrw to take a test. But a few minutes ago I felt this sharp pain in my lower abdomen :( Not like cramps when you get your period like another pain. I really don't know ow to explain the pain but I am worried now. I went to the restroom while I had that pain & it didn't hurt just when I would press down on it. What can it be? more

Open Question: Anybody have early pregnancy cramps?? are they normal?

well im not sure if im pregnant yet i havent done a PT because the last times ive done them they turned out negative. but i had intercourse on may 23 and may 24 so my period was supposed to come last week and it hasnt. i used protection but sometimes i used the pull out method. so idk if i am pregnant or not. but yesterday mornin i woke up from this big cramp and lower back pain that lasted about 30 minutes and i didnt get it back untill today at 2 pm and also lasted about 30 minutes cramps along with lower back pain. both times i felt sort of bloated but then it went away. i thought i was going to get my period but i havent. thinking that i will test next week i dont want it to be a false alarm! more

Open Question: who sings this song it might be called want u back or cant sleep without my baby idk?

ok haha might b little lame but ima sing you guys sum of the song ok here i go ::i know i did wrong girl im lonley i cant sleep without my baby i put things before u and ignored u but lady im sorry i know i cant change all the pain that i gave in the past but i never shoulda let you go cuz now i want u back.:: its kinda a r&b song i guess i got it as a ringer on accident n i love it i so needa kno who da hell sing it. thankuu more

Open Question: Overall Aches and Chest Pains.?

Okay so this is nothing new, but ive been having numerous symptoms as of late. Symptoms: Chest Pain (mostly dull, varying all over chest. sometimes heart region, sometimes upper, sometimes sides) Palpitations (not always, but sometimes) Headaches (minor and not everyday, maybe once every few days) Abdominal pain (seems to help a little if im not hungry or just ate) Very sore overall in back and somewhat in arms. Ive been stressed alot lately thinking that i may be having a heart attack and ive also been stressing about a few other things too. Ive also had some difficulties sleeping because of my pains and aches. Also, a relative told me to look into panic attacks and many of the symptoms matched up. Could i be having a combo of stress and panic attacks? Ive been blood tested, chest xrayed and ekg'ed, all being good. What are your opinions? more

Open Question: Possible to overcome severe depression without meds?

For the past some years I've been kicking myself out of bed just to go to work, have horrible attendance, always tired and such. Still got by somehow, paycheck to paycheck, but now on top of it all I'm going through a divorce. Been sleeping alone, waking up alone. On top of it all constantly worrying about how my ex husband is doing. Never broke up over anything dishonest... we just couldn't get along anymore. He's doing worse than I am, he's got no job or car and living with his grandma, I at least have a job and a car and my own place. Scared he might do something self harming. I thought I would be strong enough to hold it all together. But everyday seems to just get harder and more painful. As if I'm not already disconnected enough .. then this happens. It was quite surprising to walk around all day and actually feel like I had a boulder on my back. bones hurt, couldn't even barely walk, talked in a whisper if I talked at all, I can't even talk right anymore. I tried to hold a meal down and get some exercise but it just seems to make it worse??? I'm trying everything here but can't seem to get by. I've never had this much constant- pain before and holding it in only seemed to hurt me physically, i don't see how but it did. Not a minute goes by no matter how occupied I am that I don't feel a tearing pain in me. I'm quite speechless at how physically impairing this is becoming. I would try to go to a psych yet i have hardly any cash and I have an issue with talking right now, i can barely speak, let alone go on vocally about whats getting me down. It's embarrassing when I try to, worse than a stutter.btw im sorry i can't do religion. I've been an atheist my whole life. I respect the wholesomeness and security of religion but could never get myself to believe in it. more

Open Question: severe pains due to contipation...HELP!!!?

I am only 6 weeks along and am not have regular bowel movements. its been 3 weeks and probably gone #2 only 3 or 4 time. It is starting to cause pains in my stomach especially when i inhale deep i feel the pains on the side of my belly. when i try to go i feel pains right above my pelvic bone that really hurt. i wake up about maybe 3 times at night cause my stomach hurts or cause the pain from laying on it. i feel bloated Ive tried prune juice, prunes, suppositories, apple juice, warm water, bran muffins and bran cereal with bananas and i've had all veggie meals that contain broccoli, spinach, mushrooms, potatos with the skin. I've talked to my doctor and she suggested all the above and said its normal, i never had it with my 2 children and to ME it DOESN'T feel normal!!!! Any suggestions on anything I might be able to take to help me along would be greatly appreciated.EDiT: ive also walked alot and have drank nothing but water for the past 6 weeks due to another situation and decided to stick to water through the pregnancy. ive felt like i gained ALOT of weight but all on my belly...kinda freaks me out just knowing whats not coming out is probably making me feel that way! sorry tmi! more

Open Question: sharp pain in the right side of my chest?

My right side upper ribcage(around the breast area) started having an ache to it when I moved a certain way or coughed. Then my sternum(chest bone) started to hurt aswell. My rib pain went away but now it hurts pretty bad right around my sternum, once again closer to the right side. It's the feeling when you hold your breath for too long and it occurs when I breathe in, laugh, cough, stretch or move in a certain way. I also felt a little nauseus but that went away. Any ideas? If there is no improvement by tomorrow then I am going to see a doctor. I just would like to know what I might be dealing with. more

Open Question: What may be a cause for someone to have frequent sleep paralysis, chest pain and a bit of shaking?

Is it juz stress or fatigue? more

Open Question: Went to my first gyno appointment and scared to go back!?

i had my first vist today and it was very painful. i am a virgin which may be a part of it. Anyways i couldn't go through with the whole exam because it hurt so bad. the first thing she did was the speculum thing but it hurt bad. is it supposed to hurt? so now im afraid to go back. will it not hurt once im not a virgin? she got most of the speculum in except she didnt get the very tip of it to my cervix though. i couldnt bear the pain. im not good with bearing pain anyway but was it supposed to hurt that bad? i don't use tampons either so nothing has been up there. so is it because i am very narrow down there?? more

Open Question: someone who knows anatomy.. i think i tore something. help?

okay.. i was at cheer camp today, and we were doing jumps. i'm usually pretty good at them, but today i did a jump and i felt and heard something tear. it made about five tear sounds right after another. it was the inside of my leg right below my butt. and it made me fall over screaming. i'm thinking it was either the gluteus minimus, gluteus medius, adductor magnus, or the gracilis, but i'm not sure which one. it hurts when i adduct and abduct my thigh, as well as pull it up and back. so basically it hurts no matter what i do.. i don't get what muscle could cause pain every way i move my thigh. and i can kind of walk, but it hurts, a lot.. anyway, if you know what it might be, please help. and tell me if it's torn, strained, or whatever. and if you know what i could do to fix it, that'd be great. thanks! more

Open Question: Cause of Hip and Foot Pain?

Just curious if anyone knows what this is. Lately I've been having problems with my right leg. It starts with my foot hurting when using it(sometimes even just doing normal everyday chores will start the pain lately). Today though my hip also started to hurt. The pain in my foot is just achy and sore, especially around the arch. The pain in my hip is a sharp stabbing one when walking. My foot also seems a bit swollen(not very much though). There has been no injury to either my foot or hip. Can anyone give me ideas as to what this may be and ways to alleviate the pain so I can get back to my normal routine? more

Open Question: How long after implantation bleeding should one take a pregnancy test?

My cycle is every 31 days. I am now 3 weeks late. Last week I had a very, very light bleeding that lasted less the 24 hours which would be, I assume, implantation bleeding. I took a pregnancy test today (sensing I am over 3 weeks late) and it showed that I was not pregnant. However, I have had numerous symptoms that would say otherwise other then being 3 weeks late ie- noxious, morning sickness, overly tiered, lower back pain etc. My husband and I have been passively trying to get pregnant since March. However, a few years back my Doctor told me that there was a chance that I may never be able to have children due to an issue I used to have with my menstruation cycle. Is it still too soon to test? Should I wait and see if I miss my next period and then take a test or wait about 2 more weeks before taking another one? And has anyone had an issue with Equate Pregnancy Test? (that's the test I took) more

Open Question: How bad is labor if this happens?

I had my son with very little pain medicine, all they did was put something in the IV and gave me some kind of shots inside me. One on each side of my pelvic bone. not sure what it was but it didn't seem to numb me at all but it is unclear since I have never had the experience of having a baby without it. My question is how much worse do you think it would be without the shots? Also my baby is breach and I may need a c- section. How bad is a c- section and how soon can I take care of my other kids? As far as lifting them etc??? Thanks more

Open Question: Personal pain 2 weeks after child birth?

I just had a baby on the 29th of May weighing 9lbs 7oz...this is my second child so I knew that of course there was going to be some pain...My first child was born 6lbs 6oz and I had vaginal pain for about a week and a half and then it was all good...for this child it's still extreme pain...hurts to urinate, and it aches almost constantly...I have tried pain killers and I still use the bottle they give you to clean yourself...the only thing that seems to ease the pain a bit is a hot bath but like I said I have two kids so I just cannot sit in the bath all day...I dont know if this is normal or anything else to relieve the pain. to describe it a little more...it's mostly the labia that seems to hurt more then anything and at the top of the vagina...so please if anyone knows anything can you pass it on to me...I am so tired of this pain and just want to live a pain free time with my newborn and my 8 year old...thanks (sorry that this was kind of a disgusting question) more

Open Question: About my ex girlfriend?

Hey , Ok so i really like my ex and i think we are becoming better friends now, We hang out but only with other people aswell. She knows i love her i wrote her this letter ************************************************************************** Dear *&^%%^&, Iam writing to say to you and ask you what i couldnt in person. lately i have been really confused with where we are at. I understand that you may not be ready to hang out as friends together yet, but you have to understand that when you go off with people that i have never heard of i worry about you. All i want to know is that your safe. Thats why i wanted to ask you why 9 out of ten texts you never reply to, i know its not about the cost of the text because you know that if you couldnt pay your bill then i would for you... I really like you alot Emma i mean to me your perfect, Your Beautiful, your funny, your sweet, we have had some times that i would call perfect, on the beach looking into each others eyes, In bed when we where just lieing next to each other and you told me those 3 words i knew then i wanted to spend the rest of my life with you I know that i really stuffed up what we had, and that forgivness can take time, iam not asking you to forgive me now i just want us to be friends and i need to know one thing. Do you have any intention on giving me another chance sometime in the future?. Becuase i know i have changed heaps. but i know i need to be less clingy and iam trying to. But i am scared that if i do just become friends then you will go out and find some freakishly hot guy that you will full madely inlove with and i would of lost you forever. I am really sorry for all the pain i put you through, i know if i could i would give up everything to go back to how things where I love you Emma and always will no matter what happens beetween us i hope we can always be atleast friends OK there i said it all i think :) ******************************************************************************** AFter i sent it she told me it made her cry. we are ment to be going on a walk sunday but shitty melbourne weather its like a temp of 6 She told me a while ago that she doesnt want a boyfriend yet and not to ask her out yet. About 2 days ago she told me she doesnt know what she wants. i stay awake at night just thinking about how i screwed up so bad and i want her back.... What am i ment to do more

Open Question: is this pregnancy im feeling?

my af came around may 22-23. me and my partner made love on the 28th and june 4th. the other day i had stomach cramps and lower right back pain now plus a feverish feeling the other night. i have also some breast discomforts. I also have white discharge few days ago. are these symptoms of early pregnancy? and when can i feel it? thanks! more

Open Question: All I can do to help is share their story. What's happening to this family is wrong! This is long...?

This is a letter that I wrote and posted on my Myspcae. After I posted it, I realized that I wanted this letter to be read by more than just my myspace friends. I am hopeful that this letter will be read by as many people as possible, because all I can do to help this family is to try and spread their story around! I don't know why I haven't told anybody about this......I guess it's because I don't think anybody will actually care! But hopefully, by writing this, I can shed some light on to something that probably happens a lot more often than anybody would think. Across the street from where I live is a little family of very sweet and caring people. Everybody on our street knows who they are, because, well, you can’t help but notice them. lol. All three of them have a handicap. Both the mother and father have learning disabilities, and so does their daughter Dorothy.....whose disability is a little more extreme than her parents. When I first came across this little family, I'm sure that I treated them the same way as everybody else in this world does. I didn't pay them much mind and gave them as little of my precious time as possible. I mean, why wouldn't I!?! I'm better than them right!?! I don't have a disability that draws negative attention to myself, so in turn, that makes me better.......Right? Well, actually, It doesn't!!! And over the years of living across the street from them and getting to know them, I have come to know this fact more and more! They are really good people, who's minds work a lot better than anybody would ever think, and their emotions are very real.....maybe even more real than some of the people I consider friends! It may have taken me some time to realize that they are more than just "the handicap family" that lives across the street. But I am honestly thankful that I am lucky enough to have gotten to know them for the gentle, loving, caring, and most of all "responsible" people that they are, because if I hadn't, than I'm sure I would feel differently about the situation that is going on with them now! I'm sure I would be blinded to the fact that they are actual human beings, who have fought all their lives to prove to the world that they are much more than their disability!!!!!! A little over a year ago, Rita and Clearance found out that their 22 year old daughter Dorothy was pregnant. Although shocked at first, as any parent would be, Rita and clearance's shock soon turned to excitement. As time went by and Dorothy’s belly started to grow, Dorothy and her parents became more and more excited! Actually, a lot of people became excited for them. Over the 10 months of pregnancy, Dorothy got everything she needed for her baby. She went to all her Dr. appointments and did everything any expectant mother would do to prepare for the arrival of their new baby. Dorothy was just glowing with joy during her pregnancy! It was great to see her like that. On March 28, 2009, Little Jacob Henery Perry made his debut. He was born at Enloe Hospital, weighing 8 pounds, 2 ounces. He was a beautiful newborn baby! The Perry family was overwhelmed with joy!!! And Dorothy went through labor with out any pain med's.........which is something I, myself could not do! But Dorothy was determined! Soon after Jacob was born, the Perry's and the hospital realized that Jacob had a Cleft Palate. "Palate" is another name for the roof of your mouth. A "cleft" is simply a gap, separation, or hole that results from abnormal fetal development. It's a birth defect, and it can make breast feeding your newborn baby very hard, and sometimes impossible. Even bottle feeding can be nearly impossible. This is one of the many reasons that children in developing countries born with cleft palates do not survive past infancy. So you can imagine the fear Dorothy and her mother felt when they found out Jacob had this birth defect! Not to mention, breast feeding alone can be VERY hard and very stressful on a new mother.....and that's when a baby doesn't have a Cleft Palate. Almost all babies lose weight during the first week or so of life. Breast feeding and bottle feeding is not as simple as 1-2-3. So on March 31, 2009, Enloe Hospital went ahead and sent Jacob home. At that time Jacob had already lost nearly a pound of weight, weighing in at 7 pounds, 4 ounces. Which is quite a bit more weight to lose than is to be expected, and in my opinion, should have been a clear sign to the hospital that Jacob was not thriving very well and that Dorothy needed more one on one help with feeding him!Anyway, after Jacob came home, Dorothy and her parents were all so happy! That baby was everything to them. Dorothy was so proud of her new little boy, and her parents were so proud of both their daughter and their new little grandson. Joy was all over their faces. That baby was right where he needed to be! Over the next ten days, Rita, Clearance, and Dorothy were very concerned about Jacobs Cleft Palate, and his eating.....because he was still not thriving! They took him to the hospital, and to the Children’s Center, and did everything they could do to try and get help. But they really never got the help they truly needed. They didn't get the help that would have been provided to a mother without a learning disability. It was almost as if they were just being pushed to the side! And let me tell you, any new mother would have one hell of a time getting a baby with a Cleft Palate to eat and gain weight!And I'm sure that if Dorothy didn't have a disability, she would have been provided with complete and proper care & instructions on how to get her baby to properly eat. And I'm sure that if she didn't get it down the first time, or the second time, or even the third time, they would have continued to give her guidance until she got it right! But that is not what happened with Dorothy! She never got the guidance that a mother with a typical IQ would have received! She was never treated fairly and was never even given the chance to be a mother to her little Jacob! On April 10, 2009, the day Dorothy and her mother Rita were set to bring Jacob down to US Davis for his Cleft Palate checkup, CPS took their baby, and left them devastated! The Perry’s were told that Jacob was taken due to “Failure to Thrive”. When CPS took Jacob, he weighed 7 pounds, 6 ounces, and the Perry’s had done everything any parents & grand parents could do to get help with the problem.They were determined to get this taken care of, but were never given the proper help! In my opinion, Jacob was stolen from them, and I honestly believe that this is a clear case of discrimination! If only you all could hear some of the things that the CPS workers have told them and the tricks they have played on them. I thought CPS was created to protect babies, not to rip them away from their families because CPS say’s they are not smart enough to be parents. How could CPS even say something like that!?! They do not even know the Perry family, and let me tell you……..if they did, this would have never happened!!! In my opinion, none of this would have happened if Dorothy was not mentally challenged. The State would not have taken a baby with a Cleft Palate away from a new mother due to “Failure to Thrive” if that mother had an IQ of an average person, because that average mother would have been considered “worthy” of receiving help with her baby that was born with such a deformity.But because of the fact that Dorothy is mentally challenged, she was not considered “worthy” of receiving the proper help that she deserved. Instead, she was blamed for the fact that Jacob was not thriving. When in all reality, the situation with Jacob would not have been any different if Dorothy’s IQ was of an average mothers. She did everything possible to get help for Jacob, and she never stopped trying. Jacob was taken from her, and now people of average IQ’s are receiving, or have received, the help that should have been given to Dorothy, because nobody, especially a “new mother” would know how to properly feed a baby with a cleft palate. It would take help, and I’m sure that help would not be fully understood by a new mother for at least two weeks. Dorothy deserved guidance. And if the guidance that she received was not enough, than she should have been given more and more until she was able to properly feed Jacob and get him to thrive!!!!Thank you for taking the time to read this Julie :) IDK if by me writing this, anything will change......I am just hoping! It's just blatant discrimination! I feel o frustrated by the whole situation and I just don't know what to do for this family!M aryah.....did you not read the subject of this "so called" question? It says...."All I can do to help is share their story!" That's obviously what i am doing....and hoping to get some advise on was to help this family and share their story. Because even if i am not able to get help and advise, Then spreading their story around is good enough for me......Kimberly, you are so right. Everything you said is so true! The disabled suffer discrimination more than most people would believe! And yes! Dorothy was a very WONDERFUL mother for the 10 days she had Jacob! My mother and I spent quite sometime w/her & her family! If this baby isn't returned to this family, it will be such a travesty! And just the way they are being treated by the CPS/Social workers is just beyond belief! We do not have a disability government based system here! How unfair is that right!?!?!! This family has so many supporters, It's unbelievable! Including the Nurse that was sent to make sure Dorothy was fit to be a mother after Jacob was born! She can not believe that this is happening to them! She is set to take the stand in court here soon....OMG "Mom" that is such a wonderful idea! I am going to start trying to contact our councilman 1st thing in the morning. Thank you!!!Thank all of you ladies for taking the time to read this. I know that i wrote a lot.....but i am just so frustrated. I'm overwhelmed w/frustration! Writing all of this has actually helped me. lol. I think that right now I am going to go and post this in another area and see if i can get some more feed back.........maybe over in Health or something. WML:)Ashley, Yes! Please pass this along! I want as many people as possible to read their story. So Yes, please, please, please pass this along! more

Open Question: Elbow pain, repetitive stress injury?

Okay, so I've been playing the violin for about 3-4 years now. I started off practicing 30 minutes a day, and by my 3rd year, I usually squeezed in 2 hours a day- sometimes even up to 9 in the summer. Then this year, I slacked off a bit and didn't start to practice seriously until a few days ago. Yesterday, after an hour of playing, I put my violin down and noticed that my elbow started to feel a little sore. I thought I could "crack" it, you know, straightening it until it cracks, but that didn't work. I went to bed, hoping it'd be better in the morning. Except for that I woke up this morning, and it hurt really badly to try to straighten my arm- I couldn't even straighten it all the way. It hurts the medial side of my elbow, kind of "behind", or under, the bone if that makes any sense. It hurt to try to straighten it, it hurt to try to flex my arm, and it hurt to touch it- kind of like a bruise. Later when I went swimming, I couldn't even hoist myself out of the pool, and had to use the steps instead. However, as I spent more time in the pool, it started to feel a bit better, and after 2 hours, I could get myself out of the pool without using the steps. Anyway, I'm afraid that this might be some repetitive stress injury or tendonitis or something. What do you think it could be, and how do I get rid of the pain? more

Open Question: Did you get this symptom in early pregnancy?

Hello ladies. I am 19, will be 20 on Sunday! :) Anyways, i am expecting my period either on Sunday or Monday. So, i am assuming that I am 10 dpo today and i only have a couple syptoms, but enough to make me think that i might actually be pregnant. So i have had a terrible backache since 4dpo. I have been nauseated but its off and on, nothing too major. Today i got a new symptom though, and i think its weird, i have a pressure in my ab area, like i am "feeling the burn" from pushups...but this ab pain and the back pain could be something else. I have been babysitting a 9 month old for my job over the summer while college is out. She is pretty good and is crawling so i dont have to do a whole lot except feed her and make sure she stays out of things. I am not sure if that could cause pain in the back and in the abs, so i am just not trying to think i am pregnant and im not stressing at all. I have had bad headaches lately but i always get headaches so i am ruling that out. I have noticed more blue veins but i am going to rule that out as "all in my head"... Anyone else have any of the symptoms above? What do you think about my abs? Think its from the 9 month old or possibly a symptom? I am going to test on Monday...so please dont tell me to go test! Thank you to all who answer!I guess i shouldnt say i will rule it out..i am just skeptical because i dont want to let myself down for things being in my head... more

Open Question: Worried about my boyfriend being around my younger brother? Please help if you have younger siblings?

My brother is 10 and my sister is 12. Well, Im not really worried about my sister being a problem because shes really understanding about him coming here. But, I have no expirience with friends around little siblings at all so this problem is really new to me. My brothers a real pain sometimes but I do love him. I feel like he is going to be in our faces 24/7 the whole time he is here. He even wants to go pick my boyfriend up with me, when he has no reason to go and I wanna be alone when I see him again for a 5 hour car drive. This is bothering me really bad. Anyhow, hes my first boyfriend and Im worried that my brother might insult him or make him feel not welcome when visiting me. Im also worried he wont give me and him enough alone time together considering my brothers really nosey and never leaves me alone. My boyfriends a very sensitive guy about himself and my brother always ends up insulting people I know. My brother also gets mad really easy causing him to yell and scream and then go cry. I know for a fact this is going to happen around or "because" of my boyfriend regardless of what I do. Ive never had to deal with him around my friends considering I dont have any friends where I live and my boyfriends really special to me and I dont want them to screw anything up. Sooo, if you have younger siblings, can you help me with this problem and give me ideas of what I can do about them around my boyfriend? Thanks so much for the help. And please, no rude or pointless comments. Will reward 10 points as soon as possible.Kinda long. Sorry. more

Open Question: Should I consult a lawyer if my pet died after applying a flea removal product?

Sorry, I understand this is not the place to go for legal advice of any sort. I am not looking for legal advice. I applied a product called "ecto-foam" to our family pet to treat a bad case of fleas. Within an hour he began to act sickly and shortly after passed away. My wife and child are crushed. He was perfectly healthy minus the fleas before we applied the product. I checked the label and I can't see absolutely any warnings concerning health risks. The worst I see read says "Some animals may be sensitive to insecicides. If adverse reactions occur, shampoo pet with non-insecticidal shampoo". We did that and it would not stop his pain. I'm not sure what to do. I think this product has the risk of killing a pet and I feel like it should at least be on the label. Had I read it I would have steered clear. The company who makes it has no contact information online or on the label. more

Open Question: Why is my period coming every two weeks with sever pain?

I am 24 years old and a virgin, I have had my periods since I was 11 and up until 2 months ago they came at the end of the month and I would only get light cramps. But 2 months ago I started to get my period every 2 weeks and it comes with server cramping pain. Nothing has changed in my life I weigh the same as always, I eat the same way and pretty much my life is exactly the same as always. I do have a doctors appointment set up I just was hoping to get a idea of what might be wrong. Thank you.sorry forgot to mention that I am not and nor have I ever been on birth control, and I do not drink tea or coffee. I also don't smoke, drink or do any drugs. Thank you for your answers so far. more

Open Question: I went to my doctor today to get my second deprovera shot.?

I went to the doctor today to get my second dose of deprovera shot and she asked me if I had any symptoms from the shot and I told her that I did have a rash around my nose but then I told her that I have had back pain and she looked at me like I was dumb and she said no one has ever came in with that kind of symptom before. I am 19 so can this really be a symptom of the deprovera and I when I pee it doesnt burn or anything because she said that I might have something wrong with my kidneys and I have never had that problem. more

Open Question: Sebaceous cyst on back?

I have a sebaceous cyst on my back and was wondering if anyone has ever had one before. I just started taking antibiotics today for it. The doctor said that I may need surgery. Will the antibiotics eliminate it or can they only help with the infection? Also, how is the surgery done (do they knock you out with the goofy gas) or is it in and out in the same day with just a shot to numb the pain before they work on it? Any ideas on cost? I do have Blue Cross insurance, do they cover all or some of it? Just trying to get an idea before I see the actual surgeon that will perform the surgery. more

Open Question: Could I be pregnant or just paranoid?

my period is every 27-28 days. when i realized that i was late, i took 2 home pregnancy tests & both were negative, but i had symptoms of pregnancy (some back pain, tender breast, lot of bathroom breaks & light cramping). in may, i was 9 days late, but i eventually got my usual heavy period. this month im suppose to have my period in about 3 days, but im not getting the usual signs that i get before my period (breakout, sore breasts). i plan to get a blood test to be extra sure im not pregnant. i have heard women still get periods while pregnant. am i just paranoid & too worried about the whole thing? more

Open Question: when can i feel if im pregnant?

my af came around may 22-23. me and my partner made love on the 28th and june 4th. the other day i had stomach cramps and lower right back pain now plus a feverish feeling the other night. i have also some breast discomforts. I also have white discharge few days ago. are these symptoms of early pregnancy? and when can i feel it? thanks!or what should i feel now? more

Open Question: Told I do not have epidimitus, but my right testicle sometimes throbs oddly, why is this & how can I cure it?

Sometimes my right testicle throbs when I do certain things like touch my inner thigh or if my testicles are touched by a girl, I have to be careful when having sex as if my testicles are knocked it can be painful, I don't like having my testicles touched & sometimes it can leed to a sharp pain... I've been told I do not have epidimitus from blood tests & I've also took Cyproflaxin & Vibrox antibiotics to clear of this, doc also said it's not cancer... The shooting pains and throbbing has not stopped. What might I have? how can I cure this? Been thinking maybe about not ejaculating for 2 weeks & hot baths but I am not sure... & not ejaculating for so long might be hard for me. Please help I am getting quite worried, it's been almost 1 year now... more

Open Question: I have alot of pain in my arm/side?

I have alot of pain in my arm/Side on my left side it hurts my arm when i walk and some times when i breath the pains pretty bad i guess Any ideas on what it might be? Please note i had a very hard work out 2 days ago and have been sore for 2 days And today its only on my arm and its wayyyy more then just soreThis was more like a pushup situp Punching bag kicking bag work out more

Open Question: How successful was your endometrial ablation?

I am going to be scheduled for an exploratory laparotomy, hysteroscopy and endometrial ablation for heavy menstural bleeding and pelvic pain. I suppose they will put me on the surgery schedule as soon as the MD gets back from vacation. He thinks this may help my pelvic pain and end the misery I am having. Whats your opinoins. If it doesnt work, he will do a hysterectomy. Whats your thoughts on this? more

Open Question: Is it possible that I'm pregnant?

I had my period for MAy started May 30(sunday) - June 3. And now i feel weird. I have been irratable,tired,naused, and back pains/cramps. The last time i had sex was the friday before my period. Am i pregnant or is it something else? more

Open Question: what can this be.....?

okay, so i've been having a slight pain around my belly button, on my left side (my left). the pain is not intense at all, and only lasts about three seconds at a time. sometimes it goes away for 10-20 minutes. i have my period right now, and i was just wondering if that may be it? has anyone ever had this before? and by the way, i'm 16. thanks for any answers in advance. more

Open Question: my baby started to bleed?

he pulled himself up in the bathtub to give me a kiss then bumbed his face on the tub side when he looked at me his mouth was bloody i think he may have hit is bottom teeth up in the top gums were it is swollen and waiting for a tooth to come in that is were the cut is i felt so bad do u think he will be ok i gave him some motrin incase there was any pain and he is sleeping now and the bleeding stopped hes 9 months more

Open Question: Repost for Other Opinions?

Just curious cause my hubby was home for R and R from Iraq, and the first day of my last period was May 15. We were in Hawaii for a week, and a half. We were relaxed, and since he has been gone for the past seven months we did a lot of 'bedroom dancing' if you know what I mean. I mean a lot! Anyway, I was looking at a calender and realized that I may have ovulated during that time in Hawaii. I do remember the runny egg white CM. But since June 5 (the day I also figured I would have had implantation looking at my calender) I have been having on/ off period like cramps. They are not bad, but I notice them. I can go on my day with them without having to take a painkiller. I just started to get a minor lower back pain that sort of comes, and goes. I been nauseous maybe five times without vomiting since then, I did have a headache for two days but blame TX allergies on that. Yesterday I got super moody. I snapped at some people who were in a car next to me. I do not ever do that, and I feel so awful about that. Anyway...... that has got me thinking of pregnancy. I am due to start my next period between June 13-15. Please do not say just take a pregnancy test. I could do that, but really cannot leave the house to do that just yet. I am just looking to see what opinions everyone has. I did test for the heck of it on June 7, and it was a negative. THANKS SO MUCH! PS - My boobs are not sore. I did have some tingle feeling in the nipples one day, but it was nothing big.Wow everyone was nicer in the morning. I am just looking to see what you all think. No shit the test is the real way to see! I have been preg before, but this is very different. And since this happened on my husband's RR it sort of means more if I am.I am not looking for you all to go "yes" or "no"....... just what maybe you all went through. more

Open Question: spiritually laughing: have you ever had trials and tribulations with hair removal?

THIS IS HYSTERICAL! (I don't have a clue as to who wrote this, but....WHAT A HOOT!) All hair removal methods have tricked women with their promises of easy, painless removal - The Epilady, scissors, razors, Nair and now...the wax. Read on......... My night began as any other normal weeknight. Come home, fix dinner, play with the kids. I then had the thought that would ring painfully in my mind for the next few hours: 'Maybe I should pull the waxing kit out of the medicine cabinet.' So I headed to the site of my demise:( the bathroom.) It was one of those 'cold wax' kits. No melting a clump of hot wax, you just rub the strips together in your hand, they get warm and you peel them apart and press them to your leg (or wherever else) and you pull the hair right off. No muss, no fuss. How hard can it be? I mean, I'm not a genius, but I am mechanically inclined enough to figure this out. (YOU'D THINK!?!) So I pull one of the thin strips out. Its two strips facing each other stuck together. Instead of rubbing them together, my genius kicks in so I get out the hair dryer and heat it to 1000 degrees. ('Cold wax,' yeah...right!) I lay the strip across my thigh. Hold the skin around it tight and pull. It works! OK, so it wasn't the best feeling, but it wasn't too bad. I can do this! Hair removal no longer eludes me! I am She-rah, fighter of all wayward body hair and maker of smooth skin extraordinaire. With my next wax strip I move north. After checking on the kids, I sneak back into the bathroom, for the ultimate hair fighting championship. I drop my panties and place one foot on the toilet. Using the same procedure, I apply the wax strip across the right side of my bikini line, covering the right half of my hoo-ha and stretching down to the inside of my butt cheek (it was a long strip) I inhale deeply and brace myself....RRRRIIIPPP!!!! I'm blind!!! Blinded from pain!!!!....OH MY GAWD!!!!!!!!! Vision returning, I notice that I've only managed to pull off half the strip. CRAP! Another deep breath and RIPP! Everything is spinning and spotted. I think I may pass out...must stay conscious...must stay conscious. Do I hear crashing drums??? Breathe, breathe...OK, back to normal. I want to see my trophy - a wax covered strip, the one that has caused me so much pain, with my hairy pelt sticking to it. I want to revel in the glory that is my triumph over body hair. I hold up the strip! There's no hair on it. Where is the hair??? WHERE IS THE WAX??? Slowly I ease my head down, foot still perched on the toilet. I see the hair. The hair that should be on the strip...but isn't....... I touch it I am touching wax. I run my fingers over the most sensitive part of my body, which is now covered in cold wax and matted hair. Then I make the next BIG mistake...remember that my foot is still propped upon the toilet? I know I need to do something. So I put my foot down. Sealed shut! My butt is sealed shut. Sealed shut! I penguin walk around the bathroom trying to figure out what to do and think to myself 'Please don't let me get the urge to poop. My head may pop off!' What can I do to melt the wax? Hot water!! Hot water melts wax!! I'll run the hottest water I can stand, into the bathtub, get in, immerse the wax-covered bits and the wax should melt and I can gently wipe it off, right??? *WRONG!!!!!!!* I get in the tub - the water is slightly hotter than than I am use to. I feel like a tortured prisoner of war as I sit down in the scalding hot water. Now, the only thing worse than having your nether regions glued together, is having them glued together and then glued to the bottom of the tub....in scalding hot water. Which, by the way, doesn't melt cold wax. So, now I'm stuck to the bottom of the tub as though I had cemented myself to the porcelain!! God bless the man who had convinced me a few months ago to have a phone put in the bathroom!!!!! I call my friend, thinking surely she has waxed before and has some secret of how to get me undone. It's a very good conversation starter. 'So, my butt and hoo-ha are glued together to the bottom of the tub!' There is a slight pause. She doesn't know any secret tricks for removal but she does try to hide her laughter from me. She wants to know exactly where the wax is located,'Are we talking cheeks or hole or hoo-ha?' She's laughing out loud by now...I can hear her. I give her the rundown and she suggests I call the number on the side of the box. YEAH!!!!! Right!!Like I should be the joke of someone else's night.(NOT) While we go through various solutions. I resort to trying to scrape the wax off with a razor .. Nothing feels better than to have your girlie goodies covered in hot wax, glued shut, stuck to the tub in super hot water and then dry-shaving the stioh no it cut off shame on me for not checking I'll post the rest in a second booooo me!the sticky wax off!! By now the brain is not working, dignity has taken a major hike and I'm pretty sure I'm going to need post-Traumatic Stress counseling for this event. My friend is still talking with me when I finally see my saving grace....the lotion they give you to remove the excess wax. What do I really have to lose at this point? I rub some on and OH MY GAWD!!!!!!! The scream probably woke the kids and scared the dickens out of my friend. It's sooo painful, but I really don't care. 'IT WORKS!! It works !!' I get a hearty congratulation from my friend who is still laughing and she hangs up. I successfully remove the remainder of the wax and then notice to my grief and despair....THE HAIR IS STILL THERE.......ALL OF IT! So I recklessly shave it off. Heck, I'm numb by now. Nothing hurts. I could have amputated my own leg at this point Next week I'm going to try hair color...... more

Open Question: Does it look like something is wrong with my spine? (photo links)?

http://tinypic.com/r/9s8me9/5 http://tinypic.com/r/2w4a0wh/5 Those are both pictures of me from the side.. My neck doesn't cause me any pain. I'm fifteen. I've always felt that weird knot in my neck but only today have I noticed how strange it looks when I lean my head down. I'm going to my pediatrician soon. Just want to know if there's anyone who knows anything specific that might be wrong.. or if you think nothing's wrong at all. Just a concern. Forgive the horrible pics, btw.I am standing perfectly straight. Weird, I know. more

Open Question: Could I be pregnant? Please help!!!!! ;-(?

I've been nauseas since the end of may everyday I went to the doc 3 days after the pregnancy test was negative. But I figured it would be because it was around the time I just ovulated so I doubt it would be detected.. Since then the nausea has continued. A couple of days ago I had back pains & stomach cramps which I never have!!!. Even though the nausea continues I started my period yesterday so I figure I'm not prego. But I still have nausea Some food taste kinda plain I wanna add something to everything I eat. I had heartburn today I never have heartbearn, I'm slightly constipated. I just don't feel like me. I'm very moody & idk what all these symptoms mean because I got my period yesterday please help!!!! Can u have a normal looking period & be pregnant? more

Open Question: pleases tell me about my writing..... how is it are theres poems ok?

~a poem with out words~ Have you ever seen a poem with out words How about the darkness of the day or the light of the night Have you ever Sean a rambling river in drought How about a happy person in dought Have you ever seen black moonlight or stars during the day Or how about and ocean that does not sway Have you ever sat in church on Sunday and did not pray Have you ever took a day to do every thing but do nothing anyway Have u ever seen someone that u could have helped Could u feel what that person felt And yet time is precious and time is dear Time is ever thing when it is near ~ If Hell Had A Face ~ Im starting to wonder if I should just let it go Let it be like the wind and the snow Im starting to wonder if you could ever love me For what you did is just starting to hit me I fell so violated I fell so trapped Now Im stuck in your mistake and can never turn back Should I leave? Should I stay? This is what I face each and every day I fell so helpless I fell so weak I fell like Ive just been beet Im faced with love Im trampled by hate I fell the pressure that I cannot escape I can try so hard and do my best But apparently this never scores upon your test So I guess I must confess If hell had a face and a particular place You would be hell in that hot dark place I see the door I see the light I see my chance its now in sight Run I must Run I may Because their will never be another day ~Eight Belles (The last Run)~ Beautiful black thoroughbred With no hope at all Your life was cut short Shorter then them all I saw your fate at that terrible fallSo young� So fast Faster then them all A nation mourned The world cried We all felt so helpless as you lay there on your side Beautiful black Thoroughbred With no hope at all That may hay been your last run for all But we will never let them forget Who went down with just 1 fall and that was all Eight belles was her name And she went down in the glory and in pain So young� So free How could this be A life not yet Begun Beautiful black thoroughbred With no hope at all We will always remember your stride to your great fall here are just i few i have many...tell me what you think i need to no more

Open Question: I have come across a poem, I think I know the Title but not the Author. Help?

The poem might have been created by a friend but I thought I would just ask around if I am incorrect. This is the beginning of the poem: The possible title is: 'Such Lies'. "He cannot see the pain; her silent tears won't make a sound. The lie behind such truthful eyes, to know his love is none but lies. His lust and break, but so often forget, the girl that runs between his fingers. The one that's mind is constantly pondering on whether his love is faked for the sake of the ride. Never knowing if his heart truly lies behind his words...." There's more to it but it's rather long. Anyone recognise this? more

Open Question: Pregnancy Symptoms!?!?!??!?!!??!?!?

About a week and a half ago possibly 2 weeks my sex drive for a few days was crazy high. To the point where I was questioning if their was something wrong with me..lol..Which leads me to believe I may have been ovulating. I have very irregular periods so I never know when I'm going to ovualte or even have a visit from AF. Fast forward to now and for the past 4 days I have been sick. The first day I was vomiting all day and up til now I suffer from nasuea when I eat or drink anything. I have had really bad diarrhea and am extremely tired. My breasts feel heavy but they dont hurt. I experienced slight cramping the first 2 days but not so much anymore and my hips on both sides have like a dull achy on again off again pain. Could these be pregnancy symptoms or am I going crazy??? more

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